Modern “Dalagang Filipina”: Preservation of Christian Moral Values in Having Romantic Relationships
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https://doi.org/10.69569/jip.2025.592Keywords:
Guidance and counseling, Modern practices, Preserving Christian moral values, Tertiary students, Davao del Sur, PhilippinesAbstract
Humans as emotional beings engage in romantic relationships to love and be loved. With modernization, many young people have shifted in the process of entering romantic relationships and have shown a decline in morality. This phenomenological qualitative research explored the practices and experiences of ten (10) female college students in their preservation of Christian moral values in having romantic relationships. Results showed the modern practices include: utilization of online communication, active engagement in social activities, explicit expression of love, confrontation of issues and concerns, and maintenance of a trusting and understanding relationship. Further, four themes emerged from their experiences in preserving Christian moral values: firm belief in the preservation of chastity, engagement in church activities, practice of self-discipline and consistency, conflicting moral values, and social pressures. Finally, collaboration between home and school, as well as activities on spiritual and moral values formation, were suggested as interventions to preserve Christian moral values among youth. The study revealed that despite the influence of modern practices and activities, there are still young individuals who maintain their moral values as Christians in this modern world.
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